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Woman

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I have heard many times that the nature is flawless and one has to believe that there is a creator looking at the flawless exuberant creation around us. But wait, Is it not just a perception?  Well, people say what you think is what you see and what you see is what you believe. And hence one has to be optimistic and see good things only. But well,think of me whatever but I see lot of flaws in the creation. Especially in the gender called Feminine. Since I am a human being let me talk only about human beings. Why is the feminine usually referred as woman is always on the painful side of the nature? Why should a woman , starting from her birth is judged upon how she looks, which color is her skin, her hair volume , then her puberty, then her periods , her insecurities, her fear , her birthing experience her role as a mother , her everyday questions and fears throughout her pregnancy ,her feeling of worthless if she can't be a mother, then her fears regarding her intimacy, her needs, ...
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Unmask yourself!

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Pause for a moment. Well, Yes, pause for a moment because it has become the toughest thing today. We are continuously busy doing something or nothing. Take a few deep breaths closing your eyes and forgetting the world. Just pause. Pause in silence, in solitude and in calmness. With a smile of no reason continue the pause.  Well, now let's think about answering some questions.  Am I happy?  If not, what will make me happy? Can I be continuously happy and joyful?  If not what is the alternative emotion that I chose to be? Am I sleeping with a sense of satisfaction and gratitude? Or with resentment and regret?  If it's the latter, what is the reason? Am I intense ? Intense that I lose myself, lose track of time and space  in doing something?  Well then, What is that something?  Am I loving my family, or my friends or someone atleast one ,  without any reason , any transaction, any rules, any expectation but only with boundless love that I don't ...
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Freedom

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Rahul Arora, has been lying on the bed in an ICU ,in one of the renowned Multi specialty hospital for the last 15 days. He is on ventilator , all his parts are almost damaged except his brain and heart and he has been waiting for his heart to stop pounding. All the people around him whom he has been thinking to be of his own, are in their own states of mind.Some of them are sad, some of them are bored visiting him, some of them have been waiting for his death and  some waiting to heir his fortune! He never imagined a day of this sort being a multi millionaire , he thought he is invincible!! Now here he is waiting for his own death very desperately....The heart stopped pounding..And Then,  He got his freedom! Raju,never felt he belonged to that place. He has been a loner, introvert who never wanted to mingle with other kids , all of the different age groups, not even with the ones of his age. Many questions, many dreams, lot of anguish and pain, longing for love, waiting...
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What is Me?

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One day , I started pondering on a thought called "What is "Me""? What exactly constitutes me? Is it my name? Is it my appearance? Is it my body the flesh and bones in it? Is it my education background? Is it my job? Is it my wisdom? Is it my assets? Is it my thoughts? Is it my ideology? Is it my profoundness? Is it my love ? Is it my family? Is it my kindness and magnanimity? Is it what I become at the end of my life ? Is it what I am right now? Is it what I was in the past? What is me? What will be mine? What is it that is eternal? What is it that is beyond space and time? What Am I here for? What am I doing right now? What is that which is permanent and eternal? Will all the ones for for whom I have been living , casting off all my emotions, shedding tears,craving for happiness, worrying about, be with me forever?? Whatever I am worried about very much now, Will that be relevant an year later? If whatever I do is only bounded by ...
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Why life is beautiful!

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One fine day, I woke up from my bed, not lazy, not with half closed eyes, not shaking my inzy winzy bones,but with a deep thought..On Life. I was wondering why I should wake up.I forgot everything what had happened yesterday. It was  a fresh day with a fresh start.A deep breath, a cool breeze from my window, A relaxed body and mind after a good sleep, gave me an answer on Why Life is beautiful! Life is beautiful Because, You have a life to live :) You have a challenge to face... You have a struggle for your own... You have a trauma to make yourself stronger... You have a lesson to make you learn... You have flesh, body, bones , in fact a wonderful machine that works for you , Your body... You have a  brain  that can control anything you do - be it an emotion or an action... You can sleep to forget your day... You have family and friends No matter how many , but people who care whether you are still alive or not!... You have got great memories, times when...
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Me vs Me

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Me vs Me.. Well, the name sounds quite strange or at least it is sounding strange to me.I have a few arguments happening inside me and the debate seems to be  never ending.. I see no conclusion as well..when a question arises , I try seeking an answer to it.. reading lot many things here and there and then that  comes out as an answer.. and  again a question arises from the answer.. and the train of thoughts keep running.. .. on and on..without a halt! Me : What is life? Why are people suffering? Me : People suffer because of their Perceptions. if they think that the experience is a pain they suffer it as  pain otherwise, they take it as pleasure or at least be neutral on how to react about it. Its all in their reaction to it.. Me :Is it? How can a tremendous pain in the head or a fracture become just a perception. It is a pain and you have to experience it, and how does your perception about it matter..? Me : Well its not about physical pains i...
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Being single!

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Being single! Life starts resembling a TV serial, very slow, very boring. Everything in life seems to be stagnated and paused except time. Nothing seems to be ‘happening’. Well yes people say a lot can happen over coffee but now nothing except a bill I guess ;)Moments Slowly start disappearing. People in life start moving on in their pursuits and we see ourselves as the one who is still standing at the same place just as a witness to the movements happening around us. Job looks boring. Music reminds of none, It stops bringing kind of smiles, blushes, gloom or whatever it used to. Music wand seems to have lost its spell! Hangouts turn out to be dull, formal, and start sounding like incoherent and boring talks.You have bucks to buy, But don't really know what to buy...Smarter technology, smarter living, Lots of social media, lots of hellos… and chats that last hardly 15 mins .. and then left dumbfounded.. not knowing what to talk. People around you show that marriage is the onl...
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