Woman

I have heard many times that the nature is flawless and one has to believe that there is a creator looking at the flawless exuberant creation around us. But wait, Is it not just a perception? 

Well, people say what you think is what you see and what you see is what you believe. And hence one has to be optimistic and see good things only.

But well,think of me whatever but I see lot of flaws in the creation. Especially in the gender called Feminine.

Since I am a human being let me talk only about human beings.

Why is the feminine usually referred as woman is always on the painful side of the nature?

Why should a woman , starting from her birth is judged upon how she looks, which color is her skin, her hair volume , then her puberty, then her periods , her insecurities, her fear , her birthing experience her role as a mother , her everyday questions and fears throughout her pregnancy ,her feeling of worthless if she can't be a mother, then her fears regarding her intimacy, her needs, her responsibilities,her character her responses, her pains, her comparisons  her life as a whole is always on the painful side . Always judged by herself and others. Why is it that in nature she is the one chosen to take all the pain be it birthing , or menstruation or be any role she takes( rather it's not her choice too roles are just pinned on her). Why is it that masculine don't have to worry about any of these aspects and what does it take to be a man? Biologically why is it so different? 

 My take here is not feminism, or not to degrade masculine gender but my only question is if given a choice on which gender you want to take before you are born will anyone CHOOSE to be a woman who faces all this physical pain and mental overthinking and worry( which is again female brain wiring is what they call).When Creation itself has disparity and bias , what can be expected from society that is human-made?