Me vs Me
Me vs Me..
Well, the name sounds quite strange or at least it is sounding strange to me.I have a few arguments happening inside me and the debate seems to be never ending.. I see no conclusion as well..when a question arises , I try seeking an answer to it.. reading lot many things here and there and then that
comes out as an answer.. and again a question arises from the answer.. and the train of thoughts keep running.. .. on and on..without a halt!
Me : What is life? Why are people suffering?
Me : People suffer because of their Perceptions. if they think that the experience is a pain they suffer it as pain otherwise, they take it as pleasure or at least be neutral on how to react about it. Its all in their reaction to it..
Me :Is it? How can a tremendous pain in the head or a fracture become just a perception. It is a pain and you have to experience it, and how does your perception about it matter..?
Me : Well its not about physical pains its about the mental struggle that i was talking about..
Me : A pain is a pain no matter its physical or mental.. Even a mental struggle is no less.. Say demise of dear one will be a mental struggle... and pain .. So how can one percive it to be just an experinece.
Me : Nope, A loss of a dear one can also be perceived as inevitable part of nature and move on...instead of living in grief you live in reality that its inevitable
Me : Oh, it is just an adjustment to the mind right .. But it is grief...isnt it?
Me : Hmm.. there you are!! it shows mind is adjustable right?
Me : So how does that matter?
Me : Adjust it towards what makes you comfortable.. Grief will make you uncomfortable so adjust it otherwise!
Me : aha, Okay.. well then How should I react to a betrayal! demise can be taken as part of nature. okay. How should I take a betrayal. Is it a part of nature?. I can never be convinced with that!!! Dont tell me!
Me : We can see it two ways The Betrayal - Betrayal is the problem of other person, how can you be connected to it. Its their mistake so they will suffer for it..
Me : How will they suffer?
Me : They suffer bearing the guilt..
Me : What if they are not guilty. In fact that's called a betrayal right, they aren't guilty about it.Its we who suffer a pain in this case.
Me : Okay,then the other angle of it...Now, that seems to be a betrayal because of the aassumptions you make about the other person right. you have assumed wrong and expected them to be in certain way , and when they don't ...you say that they have betrayed you right? So its your assessment
that's wrong, Its your expectation that's wrong..and how can you say its their fault? So since your mind is adjustable you have to set it right way.... and know that people wont behave as you expect them to.. they are not machines to react the same way to intend them to. situations might have
changed..Human- its a complicated machine you know..!
Me : So you mean I should not bother, No matter what. Am I not Human for that csse..?
Me : Its not whether you have to bother or not.Its just that Instead of thinking it as a betrayal, Try not thinking about it that way, Let it go...Control the vehicle, it will run as you say..
Me : Hmmmmm.....Er... Forget it..Now Why me is my next question?
Me : Do you bother if the same thing happens to others? Let me be more clear.. Say you are comparing this with a friend of yours. You are not your friend. He is a different entity.And your Question is Why Only me , who is suffering when he is happy in a relationship... So even if you come across the same person in your life, you might not have trusted that one, might not have got closer, and might not even fall in love with them... So his success in that relationship , In your case, might not have created a relationship at all...!!. So basically to be simple, You cant compare! His success might not be a success to you if the same occurs in your life... and vice versa... its Strictly constrained only to YOU! So stop asking why only me.. Buckle up.. gear up.. and drive ahead..! You can go only in your car. You are not driving his....
Me: Hmmm... I have lot more... But lemme sleep for now..! ..
P.S. It sounds complicated. This is not a questionnaire but just a bunch of thoughts that happen in my complicated brain with complicated wiring :P
Well, the name sounds quite strange or at least it is sounding strange to me.I have a few arguments happening inside me and the debate seems to be never ending.. I see no conclusion as well..when a question arises , I try seeking an answer to it.. reading lot many things here and there and then that
comes out as an answer.. and again a question arises from the answer.. and the train of thoughts keep running.. .. on and on..without a halt!
Me : What is life? Why are people suffering?
Me : People suffer because of their Perceptions. if they think that the experience is a pain they suffer it as pain otherwise, they take it as pleasure or at least be neutral on how to react about it. Its all in their reaction to it..
Me :Is it? How can a tremendous pain in the head or a fracture become just a perception. It is a pain and you have to experience it, and how does your perception about it matter..?
Me : Well its not about physical pains its about the mental struggle that i was talking about..
Me : A pain is a pain no matter its physical or mental.. Even a mental struggle is no less.. Say demise of dear one will be a mental struggle... and pain .. So how can one percive it to be just an experinece.
Me : Nope, A loss of a dear one can also be perceived as inevitable part of nature and move on...instead of living in grief you live in reality that its inevitable
Me : Oh, it is just an adjustment to the mind right .. But it is grief...isnt it?
Me : Hmm.. there you are!! it shows mind is adjustable right?
Me : So how does that matter?
Me : Adjust it towards what makes you comfortable.. Grief will make you uncomfortable so adjust it otherwise!
Me : aha, Okay.. well then How should I react to a betrayal! demise can be taken as part of nature. okay. How should I take a betrayal. Is it a part of nature?. I can never be convinced with that!!! Dont tell me!
Me : We can see it two ways The Betrayal - Betrayal is the problem of other person, how can you be connected to it. Its their mistake so they will suffer for it..
Me : How will they suffer?
Me : They suffer bearing the guilt..
Me : What if they are not guilty. In fact that's called a betrayal right, they aren't guilty about it.Its we who suffer a pain in this case.
Me : Okay,then the other angle of it...Now, that seems to be a betrayal because of the aassumptions you make about the other person right. you have assumed wrong and expected them to be in certain way , and when they don't ...you say that they have betrayed you right? So its your assessment
that's wrong, Its your expectation that's wrong..and how can you say its their fault? So since your mind is adjustable you have to set it right way.... and know that people wont behave as you expect them to.. they are not machines to react the same way to intend them to. situations might have
changed..Human- its a complicated machine you know..!
Me : So you mean I should not bother, No matter what. Am I not Human for that csse..?
Me : Its not whether you have to bother or not.Its just that Instead of thinking it as a betrayal, Try not thinking about it that way, Let it go...Control the vehicle, it will run as you say..
Me : Hmmmmm.....Er... Forget it..Now Why me is my next question?
Me : Do you bother if the same thing happens to others? Let me be more clear.. Say you are comparing this with a friend of yours. You are not your friend. He is a different entity.And your Question is Why Only me , who is suffering when he is happy in a relationship... So even if you come across the same person in your life, you might not have trusted that one, might not have got closer, and might not even fall in love with them... So his success in that relationship , In your case, might not have created a relationship at all...!!. So basically to be simple, You cant compare! His success might not be a success to you if the same occurs in your life... and vice versa... its Strictly constrained only to YOU! So stop asking why only me.. Buckle up.. gear up.. and drive ahead..! You can go only in your car. You are not driving his....
Me: Hmmm... I have lot more... But lemme sleep for now..! ..
P.S. It sounds complicated. This is not a questionnaire but just a bunch of thoughts that happen in my complicated brain with complicated wiring :P
Liked the way u traversed from one question to another with a sensible and relevant answers... :)
ReplyDeleteHema jee...nice thoughts... keep going..
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